a looser's view to life

i am talking about viveka babaji's suicide and other high profile suicides. the depressed lives that these victims live, and the suppressed emotions that they carry. i know much before starting that i am very late in writing this, but its better late than never. the reason why i am writing this that i see so many people giving up their hopes and putting down their weapons in hardships. its something that is happening everywhere. the richest ones are the most vulnerable ones. the core is that these people become so used to easy money, easy lives and easy victories during the golden phase of their lives that they fail to face the hardships. they get so much power and money at their disposal that they start considering themselves as pseudo-gods and when the popularity goes down with age, they can't bear with the decreasing inflow of money and loss of power and end-up running from their lives. when the problems become a bit more pronounced, they loose control over it and choose the easier way out of it, and sadly, the easiest way at their disposal happens to be- DEATH...


nothing is perfect in this world. same is true with our lives. the adversities test the true character of a person. even bhagwaan ram had to go for a 14 years wanwaas, and then was forced to expel mata sita from the kingdom. had he been one of these powerful and omnipotent high class individual of today's world, he would have definitely slit his throat open or would have hanged himself and squeezed his neck. all i want to say by this is that, the life and its problems are still the same, but the lifestyles have changed.


the drugs and drinks that people consumed as so called stress busters, actually blast the serenity of their mind and they become over responsive to things and then in a fit of emotion they end up doing the self eliminating task of committing suicide.


the best example of survival is Mr. Amitabh Bachhan sir. his perseverance and his self belief has taken him to newer heights, after a real bad phase of life post ABCL. had he also given up to life, we would have never been able to witness masterpieces like, BLACK and SARKAAR.


the elimination is damn necessary, but not of lives, of stress instead. the life styles have to be changed not in terms of living life but in terms of looking at life.

neither is there a short cut to success, nor is there a means to remain at the top forever.


relations come to an end, the era of one's scintillating success also comes to an end. but what should keep on going is life.



just give it a thought.

waiting for your comments.


gud nite
sleep tight
with love and regards

aman